Any healthy man becomes aroused many times faster than a woman. For most, a quick glance at a naked body is enough for an erection and subsequent sexual intercourse. Others need reinforcement in the form of tactile stimulation - these are people with a type of kinesthetic perception of information from the outside. They need to touch everything, feel it physically to process it with their brain and accept it. If your partner loves touch and is particularly aroused by it, then he belongs to this group. Of course, guys with an increased tactile need will not refuse the sight of a beautiful girl, but your arsenal should include stimulating techniques with hands and other parts of the body!
It is wrong to believe that only the female half needs foreplay. Men also love affection and do not disdain prolonging the pleasure they receive to relax physically and psychologically. And on a strong torso there are no fewer erogenous points than those of beautiful girls. For a quality erotic session, you will need knowledge of sensitive areas, so let's enrich our baggage together with seduction techniques. Today we will learn how to excite a man with our hands and learn how to press all the "red buttons"!
Erogenous points in men, caress them correctly
Erogenous zones are those areas of the skin that are most sensitive to touch and influence. Their caresses help increase arousal and erection. Over time, you will learn to identify not only general male erogenous zones, but also individual ones for each individual guy, which will give you power over the stronger sex. A man simply goes crazy when a girl caresses him as if she is reading his most intimate thoughts of her at that moment! Let's move on to the practical exercises.
Head and face
You should not think that all sensitive areas are concentrated in the area of \u200b\u200bthe penis and scrotum. Most men find pleasure in running women's hands through their hair. No less pleasant is the tenderness of touching the cheeks, eyebrows and chin with the back of the hand. Stroke his hair with your spread fingers so the hair falls between them and slide the ends across his face. You can finish the action with gentle kisses on the earlobe. What excites me the most is not the fact of the touch of the lips, but the warm breath, which is perceived very acutely.
Neck
This part of the body in men is ideal for arousing passion with the hands. The most sensitive area is the strip of skin that runs from the earlobes to the center of the shoulder. Move your fingertips up and down and follow it with kisses. You can use tongue caresses if your partner responds positively to such stimuli.
The line from the beginning of hair growth to the interscapular area is the catwalk. From here the hot trips begin, signaling that the lady will soon go lower and there will be a "bounty". . . About her Walk gently over her with the edge of your palm or fingers. Most likely, your body will be covered in goosebumps. Repeat.
Backwards
On the back, to properly excite a man with your hands, you need to touch several points:
- between the shoulder blades
- above the shoulder blades, closer to the shoulder region,
- 3-5 cm below the interscapular area,
- on both sides of the coccyx + the coccyx itself.
These "accumulators" of lust can be caressed with fingertips, hair, and some girls know how to effectively influence them with breasts. Men are very aroused by the touch of women's nipples on their backs.
For many guys, hugging from behind is an incredibly attractive gesture, especially in the case of a completely naked female body.
If everything is fine with the vegetation in your intimate area, you can use a completely obvious provocation: caress the sacral part of the back (coccyx area) with your pussy. Keep in mind that in a few seconds the guy will not be able to restrain his desires, so seduction with secret techniques will end here. Your only option is to tie him up or handcuff him.
By the way, an immobilized and blindfolded partner focuses more on tactile stimuli and therefore experiences more acute sensations. Take note of this idea!
Torso
On the front of the body, the most sensual points that respond instantly to caresses are the nipples and the hairy part of the abdomen, leading to the pinnacle of male greatness. Keep in mind that men have slightly different nipple sensitivity than girls, so you shouldn't pull them as hard. There are individuals for whom such incentives will be unpleasant, therefore, dear tigers and panthers, let us purr and listen to the desires of our seduced object. Many people like it when a girl passes her palms over her chest and stomach, while she is sitting on top of her.
Shoulders and arms
The shoulders themselves are not an erogenous zone, but a light massage of the central part will help ensure a smooth transition from one part of the body to another. The hands, on the other hand, have several rather sensitive points.
- The outer part of the elbow, or rather the inner crease of the arm, is a place with greater susceptibility to light touches. The most brutal tactics remain unanswered. You can move from this point to the wrist with your fingertips back and forth.
- The area between the middle and ring fingers. Many guys react to touch by associating it with penis caresses.
- The inner side of the palm and fingertips are also very sensitive to gentle touches of the hands, lips and warm breath.
Legs
Did you still think that a man's legs are not involved in arousal and are needed only as a support during sexual intercourse? You were very wrong! His feet, it seems, are a real erogenous crater! Kneading the fingers, gently stroking the heels and instep puts the owner more than in a good mood.
The hollow below the knee is another erogenous zone to excite a man with your hands. Caressing, light touches and pressure excite guys wildly.
The junction between the torso and the thighs is rich in nerve endings, which makes it possible to classify this area of the male body as highly erogenous. Stroking the hip bones with your fingers can make a guy shiver with pleasure.
Anal hole
Many men do not let a woman into this area at gunpoint because they are embarrassed or afraid of creating an image of a person focused on their own kind. And nature created her very erogenous! Stroking the anus inside and out excites any male. The main thing is to relax. Gently stroking the anal ring with your fingertips gives the guy the right mood. If you wish, you can put your fingers in his ass and feel the most sensitive places there with maximum response to passionate appeals. We have already written how to do it in an article on how to convince your husband to have sex with a strap-on: read.
Cock and scrotum
And the main course is, of course, manhood! Stroking the testicles with your hands (pulling, squeezing, touching), masturbating the penis itself and touching the skin in the area between the anus and the genitals can cause a flood of ejaculation. It all depends on your skills.
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How to properly stroke a penis with your hands to excite a guy
To properly arouse a man with your hands, you need to know how to handle his penis. Some girls are sure that shaking up and down and smoothing the foreskin is enough to experience enchanting sensations. They are very wrong. You need to know how to handle the penis, and with the same care as a woman's vagina.
Correct grip
There are several basic ways to grasp a penis.
- The traditional option is the fist grip, in which the movements can be translational "up and down", or they can involve a spiral rotation.
- We press the head up with the thumb, and the rest is located below.
- It is necessary to create a small ring (OK sign) from the thumb and forefinger, connecting them and opening the fist (see photo below),
- If you lubricate your hands with lubricant first, it will be easy to arouse a man. The fist in the reverse position (you need to see the back of the hand and the thumb pointing towards the woman) should move as if it is squeezing the penis.
Caresses with fingers and hands
To improve the sensations of a partner, a woman needs to take care of the warmth of her hands in advance. Using any technique for grasping the penis, stimulating a man with warm hands, you can quickly reach orgasm. But you should not overheat the scrotum. There is nothing good about this for kids' health.
Some representatives of the stronger sex like it when a woman strokes the shaft with the phalanges of her fingers. It is best to do this while imagining that you are playing the guitar, so as not to visually scare your partner with large movements.
A man experiences a special sensation when his penis is caressed by the hands of two women at the same time. We place dignity in our palms without bending our fingers. We move up and down slowly and smoothly, touching the head with the thumb of one hand and performing circular movements.
If your partner has a large amount of foreskin, masturbate him differently: it is not necessary to go to the base, on the contrary, he perform compression manipulations towards the head. Under the skin, the main erogenous zone is caressed - the head of the penis, and since the caresses are performed indirectly, there is no risk of erasing it. Men with such a structure come brilliantly from such techniques!
It is important not to forget to caress the testicles. The effect of simple massage movements will not only provide excitement, but also bring health: you can avoid potency problems in adulthood by regularly stroking and kneading the testicles. Take them in your hands, hold them, squeeze them, pull them a little to the side or down (slightly! this is not a wrist expander! ), then start massaging the base of the penis in a circular motion and casually touch the part testicles.
An unusual caress with a nail plate, which should be drawn along the shaft and along the scrotum, will add piquancy and enhance the effect of the whole process.
After the man is very excited, you can move on to more daring experiments. To continue, the girl must rub her lips on her partner's penis and make sliding movements without penetrating the vagina.
Combining the proposed techniques with a high-quality blowjob will help surprise your man and bring him to ecstasy in just a few minutes! In fact, there are no hard and fast rules on how to properly arouse a man with your hands. To achieve harmony, she examines his body inch by inch and monitors his reaction.
Some tips on massage techniques
We have told you how to prepare a man for sexual intercourse and how to excite him as much as possible, but you want to create a distinctive feature so that he is captivated completely and irrevocably. Let's try to overcome potential rivals and find that anchor on which we will put it like a drug!
- Always soften your hands with oil or cream to ensure smooth movements. Sliding excites men.
- Apply pressure, stroking, light pinching to the muscles and be sure to pause for a few seconds. This greatly inflames passions.
- Always start your journey from the upper body and work your way down gradually. It is not necessary to go directly to the genitals.
- When you move to the perineum, play with your clothes or a taut towel after your shower to create even more excitement. Put your hands in his unbuttoned pants or under the towel, massage your private parts and whisper in his ear how much it turns you on.
- You can maintain a commanding tone and order him what he will do in the next minute. Even strong men get excited when a girl takes the initiative into her own hands.
- Combine caresses with each other. Let his exciting hand massage turn into a wild orgy, when the young man no longer understands where his body is and where his penis is. A wave of voluptuousness should cover it!
- Use your chest. You can stroke the penis with two palms and rest your head against the nipples. Men love touching their breasts with an erect penis!
And the main advice is to always use the complicated Thai technique. When you have reached the main point, select another very sensitive area and caress it at the same time. This could be an anus member, a lower back member, a buttock member, etc. You yourself will notice what a man responds to most. When he finishes, move to another secondary area and stroke him discreetly for another 20 to 30 seconds, as if to calm your partner. It should not be the most sensitive so as not to cause irritation. Repeat it again and again - it will become your trick.
To excite a man with your hands and bring him to orgasm, it is not necessary to wait for suggestions or requests from him. As a rule, the representatives of the stronger sex are not averse to giving the initiative in bed to their partner, counting on his playful mood and passionate temperament. Surprise and spontaneity are excellent conditions for bold experiments and 100% male excitement.
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